Someone to Get Coffee With in Philadelphia
An hour of proper conversation with another person. It is a small thing that has become surprisingly hard to arrange.
Remote work removed the ordinary contact most people used to get for free. Frienda is a straightforward way to sit down with someone for an hour - in Rittenhouse, Fishtown, Passyunk, wherever suits - and have an actual conversation. No agenda, no romance, no networking.
How it works
- Set up a free profile - what you are up for, and where in Philadelphia you are.
- Look through people nearby and read their profiles properly.
- Message someone whose plan and pace suit yours, and agree the details before you meet.
Staying safe
Meet somewhere public the first time, tell someone where you are going, and keep it short. Profiles are verified, and when a conversation starts turning into a real meetup, Friend-A prompts you to set up One Tap Alert - a free app that sends your location to your own trusted contacts at one tap. It notifies the people you choose, not the emergency services; call your local emergency number directly if you are ever in danger.
Friend-A is strictly platonic. Not dating, not adult services. Accounts that treat it otherwise are removed.
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Questions
Is it awkward?
The first few minutes sometimes. It helps that both people know exactly why they are there, which is more than most first meetings offer.
How long does it usually last?
An hour is typical for a first one. You agree the length in advance.
Is it confidential?
Companions are expected to be discreet. It is company, not therapy - if you need support, please speak to a professional.