New to Philadelphia and Do Not Know Anyone?
Moving somewhere new is the loneliest ordinary thing most adults do. It is not a personal failing and it does not fix itself quickly.
The first months in a new city are strange: work fills the day, evenings are empty, and everyone you meet already has their people. Frienda gives you a way to actually do things - coffee in Fishtown, a walk along the Schuylkill, a first look at South Philly - with someone who knows the place, while you build your own circle at your own pace.
How it works
- Set up a free profile - what you are up for, and where in Philadelphia you are.
- Look through people nearby and read their profiles properly.
- Message someone whose plan and pace suit yours, and agree the details before you meet.
Staying safe
Meet somewhere public the first time, tell someone where you are going, and keep it short. Profiles are verified, and when a conversation starts turning into a real meetup, Friend-A prompts you to set up One Tap Alert - a free app that sends your location to your own trusted contacts at one tap. It notifies the people you choose, not the emergency services; call your local emergency number directly if you are ever in danger.
Friend-A is strictly platonic. Not dating, not adult services. Accounts that treat it otherwise are removed.
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Questions
Is this just for people with no friends?
It is for anyone who wants company for something specific. Plenty of people have friends and still have nobody free on a Tuesday.
How soon can I meet someone?
It depends who is available near you. Message a few people rather than waiting on one reply.
Do I have to pay to try it?
Browsing is free. You subscribe when you want to start a conversation.